I left France at seventeen, on my own, and enrolled myself in a school in England. I had a host family and not much else. That is more or less how I have made every significant decision since: work out what I need, go, then organise everything around it.
Ten of the years that followed were spent at Expression for Growth, a consultancy in Hampshire training organisations in selling, negotiation, strategic planning and facilitation. It changed my life, and not gently. I was trained, pushed and mentored to a standard I had not known I could reach. I remember watching a recording of my own presentation with my coaches and being told, plainly, that it was not good enough and they could not put me in front of a client yet.
I did not want reassurance. I wanted to be better. So I got better.
What they gave me was not a technique. It was a standard, and the experience of being developed by people who could see something in me before I could see it myself.
That is why one of my values is Seen. Accompanied. Freed.
Seen. Recognised for what you are truly capable of, before you can see it yourself. Accompanied. Walked alongside. Not directed, not carried. Freed. Left with the capability, the confidence and the structure to no longer need me.
This is how I was developed. It is what I commit to for others.